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Like every other post is sponsored content and I’m not into it
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Every now and again I think of this Sarah tweet and just stare into the middle distance.
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Refers to my mom as “my mother” to show that theres something wrong with me
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me and everyone i know barely hanging on by a thread just absolutely lusting for a vacation or just a change of scenery… to be by a body of water perhaps
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yeah having rsd sucks and people say shit that shouldnt hurt my feelings but does anyway all the dang time but an important thing that i had to learn was that just because someone hurt my feelings doesn’t mean they meant to or even know that they had the ability to hurt my feelings, and i really need to evaluate a situation before my rsd causes me to hold an unnecessary grudge. yes its not unreasonable to ask the people i spend time with to be considerate of my adhd + rsd but i shouldn’t be making others feel bad just because my brain always wants to interpret everything as negative, and a certain degree of self awareness is a great thing for both parties.
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obv if you’re in a relationship that tires you out or makes you struggle to see eye to eye then that’s a problem, but the idea that good/healthy relationships don’t demand anything of you is… not true? lol. when people say relationships require hard work, they mean that love involves care and attention and patience, practices that in the long term are sustained by effort and initiative. ofc that doesn’t mean it should be a difficult effort to make, at least not all the time, but it does mean that loving someone has its ups and downs and you need to be able to negotiate that bc you’re human. love is labour, but it’s the kind of labour that makes the effort meaningful
#you’ve heard of ‘my body is a temple’ well get ready for 'our marriage is a garden’
@moth-ra truly gets it
